A Safe Place for Survivors of Extreme Trauma
A bi-monthly blog about healing from deep, intense or extended trauma, written for survivors of sexual violence, family violence, child abuse, torture, war trauma, gender dysphoria and other deep trauma.
YOUR STORIES of HOPE and SURVIVAL
Series 1 (Episode 1): You Deserve to Live
If you’re thinking about suicide, the first reason not to kill yourself is that your life is precious. So are you. Please don’t kill yourself.
Series 1 (Episode 2): Suicidal feelings pass. Death doesn’t.
Just get through this hour. And the next. And the next.
Yes: it seems like everything is getting worse. But hang in there. It will get better.
If you don’t kill yourself.
Series 1 (Episode 3): Avoid Murder
It seems cruel and harsh to say, “Don’t kill yourself because that’s murder.”
But please don’t murder yourself. Your death could cause heartbreaking damage, like any other murder.
Maybe more.
Please. Stay alive.
Series 1 (Episode 4): Suicide Won’t Fix Anything
For a lot of trauma survivors who have ever grappled with suicide, we see death as a quick “fix.” A solution.
It isn’t. You’re simply passing the problem on.
If you die, we don’t know what happens to you. But we know the problem isn’t fixed.
Stay alive and fix the problem. Heal. Be whole.
Series 1 (Episode 5): Call a Crisis Hotline
In most countries, there’s a suicide and crisis hotline you can call if you want to die. In many countries you can even text instead of calling.
Such a simple thing to do. But that call or text can save a life.
Maybe yours.
Don’t kill yourself. Call or text a crisis hotline.
Series 1 (Episode 6): Keep a Promise to Stay Alive
If you kill yourself, you’ll never have a chance at a truly happy life. One way to stay alive is to promise someone, or even God, that you won’t kill yourself.
Series 1 (Episode 7): People Care About You
Sure, when we want to kill ourselves, sometimes we can’t imagine anyone cares.
But they do. And you matter.
If you’re in pain, call or text a loved one, a friend, a therapist, a colleague or a hotline. Visit someone in person, if you can.
Give someone a chance to care about you.
Please don’t kill yourself.